Note: This is a guest post from Fred Tracy of FredTracy.com
If you’re like most people, you probably have a bad relationship with failure. You see it as an ending, as proof that your plan didn’t succeed or your ideas weren’t good enough. The truth is, failure happens to everyone. The only thing that separates people who succeed from those who don’t is a proper understanding of the power of failure. Success requires that you learn from mistakes and missteps along the way rather than falling into despair and giving up.
Pay attention to the information here, especially if you’re at a place where failure isn’t your friend, and you will find that opportunity lies in every defeat. Here are 3 reasons why failure is the key to success.
1. Failure is a Function of Trying
The best way to measure your progress at something is the number of setbacks and “failures” you’ve had. If you haven’t failed yet, chances are you aren’t trying very hard. Failure is the blacksmith’s hammer that tempers the sword of success. If you want to get really good at something, you have to fail at least a few times.
If you look at all the great men and women throughout history, you’ll notice that they had one main thing in common. They failed, and they failed often. Think of Thomas Edison. How many times did he fail to find the right filament for his light bulb? There are various estimates, but they all range in the ballpark of a whole heck of a lot. Henry Ford knew of failure intimately. So much so that he is quoted for saying the following: “Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.”
Clearly, failure represents opportunity and growth, not deficit and loss.
2. Success Lies in Seeing Failure as a Tool
Just as all the greats have something in common, so too do the true “failures” of life: their inability to use failure as a tool. When you feel that sinking, desperate sensation known as failure and you take it to heart, you diminish yourself. You give your power away to an external event. Success is about learning how to recognize why you failed, and how you’re going to compensate for it.
I find it helpful to ask myself the following questions upon failures, big and small.
- What brought about the failure?
- How much of it is in my realm of influence?
- How can I use my influence to turn failure into success?
- What steps do I need to go through to try again?
- What can I do every day to ensure that my next try is done more intelligently?
You may want to get out a piece of paper and go through that list. Be completely open and honest as you ask yourself each question. Analyze your answers carefully and implement them – don’t procrastinate! Remember, failure is an opportunity, not a burden. Be grateful for a chance to grow.
3. Failure Builds Character
If you look at the events leading up to any significant victory, you’ll often discover failure as the biggest motivator. Just as the Colorado River created the Grand Canyon over a period of millions of years, success can also come in small chunks, and they’re part of any winning strategy. On the other hand, waiting years upon years for something to happen isn’t effective when you can take action now.
So what do you need to consistently test yourself and learn from failed attempts? Character.
Success occurs in leaps and bounds for people who are ready for it. To genuinely create value, day in and day out, requires determination, purpose, and most of all, that subtle yet all-important trait known as character. Failure is a far better character builder than any affirmation or fleeting goal. While each success will propel you by a small amount, failure will forge your career – and your personality – like nothing else will. It’s the difference between a natural lake being formed over thousands of years and a man-made lake coming into fruition in under a year.
Success takes willpower, intelligence, determination, and grit. But more than anything else, it requires failure. Use this is an opportunity to reassess your relationship to the true key to success that so many people fear.
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If we like the most of people, we generally have a bad and intense relationship with failure. we can see it as an ending, as proof that our plan did not succeed or our ideas were not good enough. The truth is, failure happens to everyone. The only thing that separates people who succeed from those who do not is a proper understanding of the power of failure. Success requires that we learn from mistakes, missteps and also with misunderstanding along the way rather than falling into despair and giving up…
Failure is a Function of Trying
The best way to measure our progress is something the number of something with “failures” we had. If we haven’t failed yet, chances are you aren’t trying very hard is quite low. Failure is the hammer that tempers the sword of success. If we want to get really good at something, we have to fail at least a few times. Because we can only with failure movement how can to win from that situation and can enjoy the movement of success after failure.
Success Lies in Seeing Failure as a Tool
As all the greats have something in common in all of us, so to do the true “failures” of life: their inability to use failure as a part of our life. when we feel that sinking, desperate, frustrated sensation known as failure and we take it to heart, we diminish our self. we give our power to away to an external life concern. Success is about learning,keep motivated own self and how to recognize why we are facing failed, and how we are going to compensation on it otherwise have to create a alternative for the situation.
Failure Builds Character
If we look at the event leading up to any significant victory, we will often discover failure as the biggest motivator,and can bring most success full movement in life. Success can also come in with small chunks ,event. These all are part of our winning strategy which bring happiness in our life.From these achievement can be transformed our life in a very true way. On the other hand, waiting while for something to happen is not effective when we can take action now.
So finally we can observer FAILURE is not a last destination of our life . Its just a step to getting a success or being a successful person in life. But we have to do hard work ,have to analyse why we getting fail in this platform. keep positively motivated on our and doing smartly hard work in our interested area. Its the only key to getting success .
very beautiful and motivational line by:- Coco chanel
“Success is most often achieved by those who Don’t know that failure is inevitable”